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The video here is some good stuff. (Some nsfw language)

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[Jack Klompus]

Coming home to a peaceful house is too much to ask from women of any color. I believe Chris Rock did a bit about why men go out drinking after work. It's to prepare for the amount of talking that's going to happen the minute he walks through the door. Hit the nail on the head.

[Cozmo]

Amen, Klompus.

Give me my goddamned big piece of CHICKEN!

[Elm Tree]

There are huge sociological issues about the expectations of white women vs the expectations of black women in a relationship that this clip overlooks/ignores. Plus, like Klompus says, skin color alone cannot produce a peaceful home. This movie is sure to spark lots of emotional backlash, though. Interested to see what happens when it comes out.

[Jackie]

"Plus, like Klompus says, skin color alone cannot produce a peaceful home."

You sure about that? I mean, obviously you've never watched your Jerry Springer now have you?

[Jack Klompus]

"You sure about that?"

Yes, I'm positive.

[King Kwame]

I think the topic is excellent, but the title is kind of demeaning. another title would be nice. Now speaking of the topic, Let me just say this, yes black women have their problems, but black men don't carry their weight when it comes to relationships. they want to fuck around then kill their woman if she does the same thing. Bottom line is black women don't know how to pick a good black man, they go for the bling, and get mad when they get stuck with a nigga who was just frontin' on all cylinders. so who's to blame? as far as white women I don't even get down like that. I don't care how bad sista's are, I will never desert them by putting a white woman up in their face, why? because I know my history, I know that white slave owners use to rape them. those scars run deep. Remember just because a man has black skin doesn't always mean he's a brotha.We have so many sell outs you can't count them anymore. Most males are cowards, 50% are. the other 30 % gay, the other 20 % just plain fucked up and stupid with no sense of self. and the black women, They are stuck on some Jesus shyt. why? because they love their slave masters. they wouldn't let you into their schools to better yourself and be a productive citizen, but they'll let you have their God? and re-ligion and you fell for that....umm! did any of you know that some slave ships were named, Jesus and Jehovah? Did you know that the U.S. Senate owned slaves and slave ships?"Inbus" was the name of that ship. the scars are getting deeper now huh? well thank's to you all being programed in this matrix that gives you your daily bread, you are mostly weaklings who call on fake gods and material shyt all day long, if I were God I would let most of you suffer too.because you're to dumb to even know that you're stupid, stop crying and liberate your Got-damn selves.The whiteman isn't going to save you and that so called Jesus wont be coming out of no cloud to get you either, if he did 95% of you will haul ass running to hell.

[richard kendall]

I should be the poster boy for this movie. like you try to say on the REV. Al Sharpton radio show last nigth 6/3/07 It's about peace! save the drama for your moma! like the brother in your story said I did every thing to make it work in my marriage to that woman, yes like him I took care of all of the big bill in our house hold. I travel with my job when ever I had to leave town,I will leave her around three hunderd dollars every time.Yes she had a job ,I wound leave money in case some thing came up! she was fine great leg's the whole package. she was into telling me just how lucky I was to have her as my wife! and what a guy said to her at a gas station dam near every week of are two year's marriage!like I told her I will sleep well when she is not around me. I'm not worried about her as long as she was safe! I did all that I can do.she was into drama all the time, she tried to beat me up around three time.I stop her and told her [you cann't beat me] leave me alone but I found out that is what she called love. I work for a major corporation I'm not down with that kind of life, I was not raise like that! like they say! [you can take them out of the ghetto,but you can't take the ghetto out of them]she had it to good!I grew up around caucasian womem one thing that I will tell you that they do know how to GET! A LIFE! they will make ajustment! they do know when they have it good! what I call love is when I'm taking care of business to build a great life for the two of us! I can go on and on about the drama that she came up with,but in the end she shot her self under her arm and when I was calling 911 for help she came into the room a yell why did you shoot me! I have it on the 911 recording tape you can hear her yelling.while at the police station she broke down and the truth about what she did and they still took me down town to the jail holding center.I never been to jail in my life,I never even had the police even ask me a question I've been on my job 30 year's need less to say I was acquit of that, then got out of that hell of a marriage and during that time I have a 5 year domestic violence protection order on her. I DON'T EVER DESIRE TO SEE THAT WOMAN AGAIN IN LIFE! she counld not just leave she had to be a real dumb bitch! when we was in court she try to decieve them. but I had a sister as my lawyer around her age and game know's game! she came with not one thing and left what around two thoursand dollars.big deal! like I told her after it was all over,dam you should have just been my girl friend you wound have got more then that out of me! I had that in my budget for chick! Peace! at home is what it is all about! save the drama for your moma reallize where you are at in life! sister's don't just talk shit help a brother out to have the best life that we can have with what we have! buy me a drank! don't just be looking to recieve all the dam time! PEACE!thank god that we did not have any children.I don't have any children

[Renee Simpkins]

First and far most, I enjoy the movie. It gave me food for thoughts.Made me realize some of the mistakes that I have made in my past relationship, like carrying out the past relationship with the present relationship.Me feeling that this new man will hurt me like the past man except the difference with my relationships in the past and the present is that the man I choose don't appreciate a woman that work everyday, come home, clean, cook, have a peaceful environment with arguring and fighting, support her man and yet, the man still leaves me. Because of me growing up without a mother or father figure in my life, but I had a grandmother who taught me to love many, trust few, paddle your own canoe. Have your own is what she told me. always make sure the rent is paid, the insurance is paid and the phone bill was paid. never let a man validate who you are is what she taught me. I don't like to argue, but if you take me there, I will say what's on my mind.I am the woman that like to do romantic things with a man and for a man, but I don't get the same from him. what men in my past have told me, is that I don't let them be the man or the head. that I am so used to doing that I don't allow them to do for me. Now, I don't say that I don't have issues. We all do, but I know that I am a woman that if there is a problem between us, I want us to sit down and talk about it. I don't want the drama of us arguing and fighting, when we can talk about what we feel we need as an individual from the other person. for example; I should be able to say to my man, honey, I know that we both have been working real hard lately and we have been stress out from work and it is affecting our home, we need some us time. we both might need some time along just to breath alittle, which we all do need sometimes. whatever, I feel that I missing from him, I should be able to tell him. another example: baby, I love you but when we make love, I need you to caress me more, to kiss me more or if I am feeling real freaky in someway, don't feel like you are not satifying me, that is just the mood I might be in. I might say, I don't want you to make love to me slow, I want some rough, hard cord stuff tonight. some like it nice and easy, I might like it rough sometime. I can relate to Tina Turner when she made that statement.Back to my point in me writing, I am an angry black woman in my own way I guess because here I am, a Black woman that try very hard to do what is right. Not perfect, but take cares of the home and all that it details, support the man in his goals,faithful, honest, god fearing,and want peace in the home. He gets that and yet he still leave because he feels that it is greener on the other side. the one thing that all my ex tell me down the road, is that they wish, they never left me because I was a friend before I became their lover. That they didn't appreciate the support that I gave them when I help them start their own business, that even until this day I am still a friend. I habor no ill feelings towards them. I am angry sometimes because I do feel that if I was a woman who did not take care of home, business, slept around with other men, did not work, and most of all, have peace in the home where he didn't have to come home after a long day of work and have to argue or fight with his woman every day. He would appreciate me and be there for me. Have my back as I have his. I know there is nothing wrong with me. I made not be a size 6 or 10 for that matter, have long hair, the material things in life that people feel that they must have. I am just a simple person that value things that don't cost a dime. A walk to the park or sitting by the lake. A person that can value a simple flower that her man can pick from the neighbor garden, than the dozen of roses that he brought from the flower shop. A note that he left on the bed telling me, have a blessed day and that he loves me. I value that more than the biggest diamond ring he can ever buy me. I don't need a house or fancy car, what I need is for someone to love me for me. So tell me brothers out there, what is wrong with me and why can't you just be content with a sister like me? one who has a simple job, drama free, the kids are gone from home now, and she is about peace at home. she just want to travel and have a loving man that she can grow old with.